Nowadays, almost every day we can hear about a child don’t want to hear their parent instruction, advice or everything you told them to do. Sometimes it becomes worse when your children are fight back to you. Did you had experience it? It is a computer games or video games effect? Are you very sure?
Lets together, we think back! Almost every day your child is going to school from Monday until Friday. At the school they will be control by the school system, the rules, teachers’ instruction, and they need, have to, must, should, and ought to do it.
Its ok my friend child! When the child arrived at home, they will face another control. Hehe.. That is their parent. How? First they were told to Study! Study! Study! And Study!!! Others, my friend child also had been forcing send to tuition. Control?!?
So, what’s the connection with playing Games? Okay, let me tell you, had you ever playing games? It’s very fantastic, enjoyable, extraordinary feeling when you are Controling your games character, Right? So... the children will feel they are controlling their life (not in reality, but in their fantasy mind). That’s what I’m feel.. hehe.. Then I keep playing games, until can’t be control..
Children will feel they having rights to control their life when they are playing games, but in reality they had been control... In reality, maybe we can give direction for them to learn to Control Their Life!
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